For the better part of a decade, we’ve been told that work is becoming more efficient, more distributed, and more digital. And that’s true. The tools are better. The workflows are faster. The distance between people has, in many ways, collapsed.
But something else has quietly eroded at the same time: a shared sense of belonging.
Most organizations don’t notice it at first. Productivity might even go up in the short term. Meetings get shorter. Communication becomes more transactional. But over time, something harder to measure starts to slip: trust, cohesion, and ultimately, commitment.
That’s because belonging isn’t a soft concept. It’s an operating condition.
Research backs this up. A BetterUp study found that employees with a strong sense of belonging show a 56% increase in job performance, a 50% reduction in turnover risk, and a 75% decrease in sick days. Yet despite this, Gallup continues to report that only around 20% of employees globally feel engaged at work, suggesting a widespread disconnect between people and the organizations they’re part of.
Across both of my companies – Meetingmax, which supports large-scale global events, and Ingenuity Live, which works with creators and media brands – I’ve come to see that the strongest businesses are not just built on strategy or technology. We have built both companies on helping people find their “tribe,” a group of people who feel connected to a shared identity, not just a shared task.
And in a world that is increasingly digital, building that kind of connection requires more intention than ever.
The myth of fully digital connection
There’s a prevailing assumption that digital tools can fully replace in-person interaction. That if we just optimize Slack, Zoom, and async workflows enough, we can recreate everything we need.
But in practice, digital connections are highly efficient and often emotionally thin. It’s very good at maintaining relationships. However, it’s not as good at creating them.
When people meet for the first time over a screen, they tend to stay in a role. They communicate in terms of function, not identity. You get alignment but not necessarily trust. You get output, but not always loyalty.
This aligns with broader workplace data: Microsoft’s Work Trend Index has consistently shown that while remote work increases flexibility, many employees report feeling less connected to their teams and company culture over time, particularly in fully remote environments.
In contrast, when people spend time together in person, even briefly, the relationship forms differently. Context fills in. Nuance appears. People remember each other as humans, not just titles.
That shift is subtle, but it changes how teams operate long after the interaction ends.
We see this clearly in the event world. A single in-person experience can compress months of digital relationship-building into a few hours. It creates a shared reference point that continues to pay dividends long after everyone goes home.
The same principle applies inside organizations.
Belonging is not culture, it’s infrastructure
Many companies treat belonging as part of “culture,” something abstract, owned by HR, or expressed through values on a wall.
In reality, belonging behaves more like infrastructure. It either supports the system, or it doesn’t.
When people feel a sense of belonging, they make faster decisions because they trust the intent behind them. They collaborate more easily because they assume alignment. They stay longer because they feel invested in something larger than themselves.
When that sense is missing, everything slows down. Decisions require more validation. Communication becomes more guarded. Teams default to protecting their own interests.
You can’t fix that with better software.
You fix it by creating environments where people actually feel connected to one another, and to the work.
The role of finding your “tribe” in modern organizations
In both the creator economy and enterprise environments, we’re seeing a shift from audience to community, from reach to retention.
The same shift is happening inside companies.
Employees don’t just want to be part of an organization. They want to feel like they belong to something with a clear identity. A group with shared language, shared experiences, and a sense of “us.”
That’s what I mean by “tribe.”
It’s not about exclusivity. It’s about clarity and connection.
At Ingenuity Live, we see this with creators who build durable businesses. The ones who succeed long-term aren’t just producing content; they’re cultivating a community that feels personally connected to them and to each other.
At Meetingmax, we see it at large-scale events. The most successful events aren’t just well-run, they create a sense of shared experience that people want to return to year after year.
In fact, Freeman research found that 77% of consumers say their trust in a brand increases after interacting with it at a live event, underscoring the power of shared, in-person experiences to build lasting connections.
The takeaway for leaders is simple: belonging doesn’t happen by accident. It has to be designed.
Why in-person still matters
This is where the digital/analog balance becomes critical.
Digital tools are incredibly powerful for scaling communication and maintaining connections. But they work best when they are layered on top of a foundation that was built in person.
Without that foundation, everything starts to feel transactional.
In-person experiences, whether it’s offsites, team gatherings, or larger events, create the emotional context that digital tools can then sustain. They establish trust, shared memory, and a sense of identity.
And importantly, they don’t have to be large or expensive to be effective.
What matters is intentionality. Leaders should be asking themselves:
- Are team members given space to connect beyond their roles?
- Are there moments of shared experience, not just shared information?
- Does the environment reinforce a sense of “who we are” as a group?
When those elements are present, even small in-person interactions can have an outsized impact.
Designing for belonging in a hybrid world
The question for most leaders isn’t whether to be digital or in-person. It’s how to design the right combination of both.
A few practical principles we’ve seen work:
- Use in-person time to build identity, not just alignment: Don’t spend valuable in-person time replicating status updates. Use it to create shared experiences that deepen relationships.
- Let digital tools maintain momentum: Once that foundation is built, digital platforms can extend it, keeping communication flowing and reinforcing connections.
- Be intentional about moments that matter: Not every interaction needs to be high touch. But the ones that are should be designed with purpose.
- Think in terms of cycles, not one-offs: Belonging is not created in a single event. It’s reinforced over time through repeated, meaningful interactions.
The long-term advantage
As AI continues to automate more aspects of work, the human side of organizations will become more, not less, important.
Execution will get faster. Information will be cheaper. But trust, identity, and belonging will remain differentiators.
The companies that understand this will build teams that are not only more productive but also more resilient. Teams that can adapt under pressure because they are anchored in something deeper than the process.
In the end, technology will continue to reshape how we work. But it won’t replace why people choose to stay, contribute, and care.
That still comes down to a simple question:
Do people feel like they belong?
Because when they do, everything else gets easier.
Contributor:
Jeff Duncan is an entrepreneur and business leader operating at the intersection of talent, technology, and large-scale live experiences. He is the Founder and CEO of Ingenuity Live, a talent and business advisory firm working with creators, executives, and media brands, including collaborations with platforms like Netflix, Snapchat, and Hulu, to turn audience attention into durable businesses.
He is also the CEO of Meetingmax, a leading event housing platform supporting major global events such as SXSW and processing hundreds of millions in hotel reservations annually.
Duncan has built a reputation as a steady operator in high-stakes environments. After experiencing a sudden revenue collapse during the global shutdown, he rebuilt his businesses with a focus on resilience, diversification, and systems designed to perform under pressure.
He is a frequent speaker on AI, media, and leadership, and is known for his perspective on the intersection of culture, commerce, and infrastructure in a rapidly evolving digital economy.